• Industry,  Reflections

    #PayForYourPorn for “Coerced Bi” as applied to content creators

    Piracy is epidemic. Tube sites are prolific in their distribution of stolen content with no sight of stopping or a glimpse of remuneration for our work. It’s demoralizing for creators as well as a nuisance to deal with it. From dedicating (read: wasting) designated periods of time to hunt down as many pirated clips in the plethora of sites, to hiring a service to do it instead, it’s a real threat to the morale and well-being of content creators, along with our industry. What happens when the ones committing piracy are members of your community? Within the “coerced bi” or “forced bi” fetish category it’s not uncommon to see pictures…

  • BDSM101,  Reflections

    On Top Drop

    It’s almost cliche how much we say “Top Drop” is often forgotten in the conversation when we talk about aftercare. The same way bottoms come crashing down from the chemical cocktail rushing through their bodies, so do tops. Depending on the scene, the top may experience the backlash that comes with intense physical and psychological exertion. Lactic acid builds up in your muscles, causing soreness and discomfort. They may experience the collapse from being in an altered psychological state; the “high” triggered by endorphins and adrenaline. Experiencing Top Drop will differ from person to person, as will the specific needs in order to come back from it once the scene…